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Marcie   "When Dad was in his last couple of weeks, the nurse showed us some simple things we could do to help him. Those little tips really made a difference in terms of his comfort level at the end…Helped us not to feel so anxious and powerless, too!"

 
 
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     While abundant resources and products are available to guide caregivers of dependent newborns, precious little exists to guide caregivers of those at the other end of life's journey. Old or young, healthy or not, basic personal-care needs are the same: good skin care, adequate bowel and bladder function, and good oral hygiene. Persons approaching the end of life often have problems in one or more of these areas. Caregivers need knowledge and support to understand and tend to their loved ones' needs.

Bowel care
     Constipation is common. It may be due to narcotic pain medications (such as morphine, which slows the bowel). Constipation also can be caused by decreased fluids or fiber or decreased physical activity. Patients need to drink as much fluid as possible (hot liquids in the morning are helpful) and focus on high-fiber foods such as prunes, dates, raisins, and dried fruit. Getting the patient up and walking around helps. As the amount of pain medicine increases, so should the medicine(s) to treat constipation. Check with your nurse or physician regarding use of over-the-counter stool softeners, senna, MOM, fiber, or enemas.
     If diarrhea is the problem, stop the laxatives and high-fiber foods. Avoid caffeine, milk products, and greasy or spicy foods. Treat with over-the-counter medications for diarrhea. Remember to increase the patient’s fluids (to replace the fluids lost with diarrhea) and gradually resume a bland diet (potatoes, rice, oatmeal, bananas, toast). (Return to list)

Bladder care
     Most patients, at some point, will lose control of their bladders due to weakness. If it is acceptable to the patient, a tube (called a "Foley catheter" or "Foley") may be placed in the bladder by a home care or hospice nurse. The catheter will drain into a bag that is hooked to the bed or a chair. If preferred, an adult "diaper" can be worn. To maintain the patient’s dignity, caregivers might refer to the diaper as protective panties or undergarments. Your loved one should be kept clean and dry so that this sensitive area does not become irritated.
     As the end of life approaches, organs begin to shut down. This process includes the kidneys, which produce the urine. Caregivers will notice a decrease in the amount of urine. It will be darker in color and have a stronger odor. (Return to list)

Skin care
      Frequent skin care accomplishes several goals: it can allow loving, caring touch between caregiver and patient; it can refresh and improve patient self-image; and it can promote circulation through gentle massage. Patients who are bedbound are at high risk for skin breakdown. Pressure is applied not only externally from the mattress, bed sheets, and other body parts, but also internally from bony prominences such as the hipbones or shoulder blades. Skin breakdown (bedsores) can occur in a period of hours. Caregivers can reduce the occurrence of skin problems by having the patient change position every two hours, taking care to cushion bony prominences. Lotions and oils are helpful tools in the prevention of skin breakdown as well. Lastly, if arms or legs are swollen, this can be reduced by keeping the affected limb(s) elevated on pillows. (Return to list)

Oral care
     What a difference a toothbrush can make! Persons approaching the end of life often cannot brush due to weakness or tender, ulcerated gums. Mouth care for these people is extremely important to promote comfort. For patients who are eating or drinking, a clean mouth also will enhance taste. If a soft toothbrush is too harsh, sponge "toothettes" or mouth swabs can be used. (They are available in most pharmacies or medical supply stores.) Some patients like these dipped in ice water. Avoid mouthwash that is alcohol-based, as it can be drying and may irritate any sores in the mouth. Lip balms, olive oil or Vaseline will keep lips moisturized and prevent cracking. (Return to list)

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     We recommend that you go to the symptom management webpages of Beth Israel Hospital in New York. (Return to list)

 
 

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